As long as we are on the topic of resolutions and being focused, how about asking your husband his opinion of your resolutions? Ask him if there is one thing that he'd like you to do or do differently? How can you be more of a blessing to him? Ask him if there are any areas he thinks you need improving on. Let this be your number one resolution; become a better helpmeet to the husband God gave you. Perhaps he should be more of your 'focus'? After all, he is who you were created for! Of course you need to do all of this without telling him what he needs to work on...lol... And don't become bitter at his comments, be open to the truth, and depend on God for grace. :o)
Better marriages make for better parents, which makes for better homes, which makes for better churches, which makes for better communities, which makes for a better world!